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This does not mean that you don't have an opinion or that you can't offer it at some point. In order for him open up to you, he has to feel truly accepted for who he is, not for who you may want him to be. Be patient with him. If you respond to his thoughts by immediately offering your point of view with something like "Well, that's wrong.

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I don't agree" or, "Where did you get a crazy idea like that? They're afraid if they say something too personal, it may not fit into the image you have of them, or the image they force themselves to project. A man is many different things at different points in his life—even at different points in the week or day. Don't be afraid to allow him Single women 3242 Grand Forks show you all different parts of himself.

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For example, some women love playing the victim or martyr. They need the blame of the relationship in order to validate their own feelings and feel powerful over their partner.

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The best way to help a man open up is simply to be open yourself, be natural, be real and exude an atmosphere of warmth and acceptance. Those who we encounter in life are mirrors of different parts of ourselves and we attract certain people who each help us love another part of ourselves. This is why it's important to apply the five topics covered here not only to the men in our lives but also to ourselves. For example, are you able to let go of judging yourself? Do you dismiss past grievances about the things you've done wrong?

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