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Mary Laner, PhD A sample of unmarried young adults was asked to identify their personal traits and to specify traits wanted in a mate. Responses indicated that: 1 men and women are similar in terms of both traits they claim to Neville OH milf personals, and traits wanted in a mate, and 2 a disparity between desired traits and those actually available in the field of eligibles appears to show that for some there is an almost inevitable "disappointment factor", more so for women than for men. Findings mms discussed in terms of the need for compromise.

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Mary Laner, PhD A sample of unmarried young adults was asked to identify their personal traits and to specify traits wanted in a mate.

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Responses indicated that: 1 men and women are similar in terms of both traits they claim to have, and traits wanted in a mate, and 2 a disparity between desired traits and those actually available in the field of eligibles appears to show that for some there is an almost inevitable "disappointment factor", more so for women than for men.

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Introduction Psychoanalyst Karen Horney once wrote that, "Imperfections—on the part of the spouse, to be sure—inevitably make their appearance during the long period of living closely together. They set in motion a minor avalanche, which automatically keeps growing as it rolls down the mountain slope of time.

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Perhaps it is not only such major problems as differing views on child rearing, the allocation of finances, or sexuality Mature naughty chat to women Claymont the "big three" of marital conflict that can lead to the divorce court, but also the slow erosion effect of spousal imperfections that acts as a marital time bomb. Is there a disparity between traits1 wanted in a mate and traits actually available in the field of potential partners?

This concern gave impetus to the study described here. How the Study Was Done Materials and Methods Students in two large college classes in Courtship and Marriage were presented with a three- questionnaire early in the fall semester. Confidentiality of response was guaranteed, frankness and Sex woman in Phum Pauleille were requested, and respondents were assured that there were no 'right' or 'wrong' zmerican.

Thus, in the foregoing example, they might select 'very horng, 'somewhat outgoing', a neutral position, 'somewhat reserved', and 'very reserved'. On the secondthey were asked to indicate which of these same traits they most wanted in a permanent partner—someone they might marry and specifically NOT in a date, in whom they might want somewhat different characteristics.

An additional question asked which six of the traits were most important to them in a mate. The third asked for ameridan on age, sex, year in school, current relationship status, and, if single, the desire to marry.

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After eliminating the responses of married students rivht the few who said that they did not think they would ever marry, data from the remaining women and men were analyzed. The Findings Complementary Needs Theory Brehm, suggests that we choose partners whose characteristics complement our own.

A shy person, in this view, would be attracted to a bold person. Proponents of this "opposites attract" theory may be surprised at the Waterbury Connecticut fireside date that the majority of respondents wanted characteristics in a mate that were not complementary, but rather similar to their own. As Brehm puts it, meeting Mr.

Right would be meeting someone just like ourselves, only better.

The distribution of traits wanted compared with self-reported traits is shown in Table 1. The first and third columns hprny proportions of women and men who said that each trait was "somewhat" or "very" important to them in a mate. Second and fourth columns show proportions of men and women who claimed that each trait was "somewhat" or "very" typical of themselves.

Similarity between what women ammerican men want is evident from comparing columns 1 and 3. Similarly, somewhat larger proportions of men than women want Sensitive 18 and Economical 20 wives, but majorities of women also want these qualities in a husband.

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Thus, despite social stereotypes of "masculine" and "feminine" qualities that purportedly distinguish between the sexes Bardwick and Douvan,respondents of both sexes appear to want spouses whose characteristics are highly similar to their own. Compare also columns 2 and 4 for a high level of similarity between men and women. Looking for an asian princes is the likelihood that spouses selected from this field of potential mates will have the desired traits?

For women, the answer is evident in a comparison of fight 1 and 2, and for men, in the comparison of columns 3 and 4.

Men fare only a little better. These concerns may be thought of as a "disappointment factor".

It appears that for some women, disappointment in terms of personal traits in their partners is virtually inevitable. Still, it may be that the traits on which major differences appear are not those that respondents consider among the most important.

However, the data shown in Table 2 do not give cause for sanguinity in this regard. For both sexes, Communicative, Trusting, Sensitive, Easy-going, Warm, and Self-assured were the most often-selected traits. Summing Up Given the discrepancies between personality ideals and their distribution in this field of eligibles, the data reported here predict the apparently "inevitable avalanche" of marital disputes addressed by Horney If self reports are accurate, and if those who plan or hope to marry change neither their own characteristics nor their desires for a Lonely ladies wants hot sex Valparaiso qualities, disappointment seems certain unless partners compromise.

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Fitting implies compromise—in the present case between the ideals and the realities. In this regard, it may be surprising that an examination of twenty recent college level marriage and family texts reveals only one in which the word "compromise" is indexed. In that text, a negative view is presented: Compromise is usually conceived as a solution to conflict in which both parties reduce their aspirations until a mutually acceptable alternative is found Although compromise might be the best outcome, participants often feel like "no one wins" because the final outcome is not satisfying to either partner Brown and Amatea, This view overlooks the word "willing" in Hudson's caveat, above.

If each partner is willing to compromise, the outcome is more likely to be positive in the 'everyone wins something' sense. Moreover, the idea of reducing Attractive San Marino slim fuck mature women seeks same is negative while the idea of merely modifying them is not.

Those choosing a marital partner might also consider whether lack of one or more desired traits would be a deal breaker. This suggestion, however, is unlikely to gain attention, given Alexander Pope's famous statement about hope springing eternal in the human breast.

Typically, members of engaged couples are asked to fill out profiles for themselves and their partners in private, then to compare their responses in an effort to uncover potential problem areas. Relationship status did show an effect but only at about chance level. Those steady dating chose Self-Assured, Calm, and Stable. Among women, there was somewhat more consistency across premarital levels.

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Those steady dating chose Warm, Self-Assured, and Confident. Finally, engaged women also chose Warm and Easy-Going, but their third choice was Forgiving. Her primary courses were "Courtship and Marriage" and "Family Violence". Her publications include over 40 articles in scholarly journals and several encyclopedia entries.

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Since her retirement, she has continued to serve as a journal editor and has given talks to various groups including the New Frontiers in Learning program at MCC. She has also taught short courses in the Tempe Connections program through the Emeritus College. She continues Housewives wants real sex Hoberg active scholarly life, taking classes every semester across a wide range of ly unexplored areas.