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I am desperate for some advice on how to build up trust between us. Anonymous Boston Dear Anonymous, You clearly care about your boyfriend and empathize with the pain he feels over having been cheated on in prior relationships. In a possessive partnership, however, one person attempts to soothe his anxiety—usually, a fear of abandonment—by controlling the space between him and his partner.

Generally speaking, at the very beginning of a relationship, a temporary merging between partners occurs in which both people seek quite a bit of togetherness while somewhat neglecting their outside interests and friendships. The kind of safety he seeks can only come from within.

When you text him back quickly or agree not to communicate with your guy friends, it fills his emptiness—but not for attracctive. Sometimes people with trust issues choose untrustworthy people, because those people feel familiar to them.

Similarly, people who have angry parents often end up choosing angry partners, those with alcoholic parents are frequently drawn to partners who drink quite a bit, and those who have withdrawn or critical parents find themselves married to spouses who are withdrawn or critical. Why do people do this to themselves? The problem is, by choosing familiar partners, people guarantee the opposite result: They reopen wounds and feel even more inadequate and unlovable.

You can start by telling him that you understand his need to feel safe, but that his attempts to feel attractige are pushing you away rather than making you feel closer and more connected to him. Date ads Brooten Minnesota

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